How is Your Fight?

How is Your Fight?

I chuckled when I found this image on social media today. It reminded me of an argument that ensued on social media group I belong to. Some people were accusing the Author of a post (John Obidi) of being pessimistic because he unapologetically called out the struggle...
On Perfection…

On Perfection…

I remember when I gained the insight that one of the most ineffective personality profiles was the perfectionist. I didn’t really understand why, after all perfect meant high standards. The perfectionist sought perfection to a state of paralysis, never making...
Go Where You are Celebrated…

Go Where You are Celebrated…

Everyone will not like you…and that’s ok, you are not jollof rice. Even with your best intentions, people will misunderstand you and judge you by their own standards. This piece is for anyone who is needs to find their happy place, their tribe, their true...
On Success and Burning Bridges…

On Success and Burning Bridges…

As my grey hairs multiply, I have come to understand the link between our success and the decisions we make in our lives. I value relationships and so I used to think bridges should never be burned. Today, I realise that progress requires that we must cross some...